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Dear Sara Bareilles: I hope you read this some day.

Do you know the singer Sara Bareilles? I’m not much of a music-listening person, so I didn’t until my 9 yr. old grandson Nolan started talking about her a year or so ago. He was excited to share some songs with me so we checked out YouTube. Now I’m a fan too.

According to Wikipedia, “Bareilles is an American singer-songwriter and actress. Her 2007 hit single “Love Song” reached no. 4 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart.

Bareilles has sold over one million albums and over nine million singles and downloads in the United States and has earned seven Grammy Award nominations, including one Album of the Year nomination for The Blessed Unrest (2013).

Seems like she’s a bit of a Big Deal, but big deals on stage and screen are a dime a dozen. What’s more rare are Big Deal people who can act like Small Deal people in spite of their success. That’s when magic happens.

Nolan has a great life. He has parents who love and support him, a cool bunk bed room, a ton of Lego, and a pretty cute puppy named McGriff. He has a big and tender heart, and maybe that’s why bullying, a learning challenge, and a dearth of friends, left his self-worth shattered.

During a particularly rough time his parents, Scott and Sarah, loaded an old iPod with music. Nolan used it on bus rides home from school to tune out hurtful words and cocoon himself in a positive space. It didn’t take long until they realized he was listening almost exclusively to Sara Bareilles. In the words of her songs he seemed to find respite, relaxation, and confidence.

To Nolan’s delight, his parents recently purchased tickets for a Sara Bareilles concert in D.C., not far from their home. He was excited as the time drew near, and when his dad dropped him off at school on the morning of the concert, Nolan smiled and said, “This is going to be a great day!” Neither of them knew how great it would turn out to be.

Not long after the drop-off Scott hit on a plan that he says is the high point of his parenting career. Thinking fast, he made a stab at what might be a work email address for Ms. Bareilles, telling her a bit about Nolan’s story and asking if they might be able to meet at her concert that evening. And then, fingers firmly crossed, he launched it off into cyberspace.

Sara 3There was no response until, driving to the concert, he glanced at an email alert. Lo and behold, it was a reply from Sara’s manager. He handed his phone to wife Sarah, and as she read her eyes got big, and a smile grew on her face.

They decided to tell Nolan right away that he would meet his singing hero. He could hardly believe it, and thanked his dad over and over. 

Sara 1Sure enough, back stage passes were waiting for them, and, surprisingly, they were the only ones to meet with Sara B. before the concert. She asked how old Nolan was, what grade he was in, and what he was learning at school. They talked about the different subjects but ended up agreeing that he would do the math he loves, and she would take care of music. The calm atmosphere of a one-on-one conversation made the time even more special for him.      

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When they were alone again, Nolan hugged his parents, thanking them over and over.

But his evening was just beginning.

Partway through the concert, Ms. Bareilles introduced her next song: “My math hero, Nolan, is in the crowd tonight. He’s nine years old, and this song is dedicated to him.”

The song? Brave.

By Sara Bareilles
You can be amazing
You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug
You can be the outcast
Or be the backlash of somebody’s lack of love
Or you can start speaking up
Nothing’s gonna hurt you the way that words do
And they settle ‘neath your skin
Kept on the inside and no sunlight
Sometimes a shadow wins
But I wonder what would happen if you
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave



Phyllis writes words: words for stories, and words for books. Phyllis writes words for blogs too.

3 thoughts on “Dear Sara Bareilles: I hope you read this some day.

  1. Hello Phyllis
    I always enjoys your writings but this one sure hit a nerve and had me starting to fill up and eventually I had full blown tears ! So beautiful and such a special experience for Nolan that I am sure will stay with him for life!
    Thank you for sharing.

  2. Amazing story phyllis. It just shows that a few minutes from someone’s day to show kindness and connectedness sometimes has a huge impact

  3. What a beautiful story! All the pieces fell into place & a lovely boy had the boost his young heart needed! Thanks for sharing Phyllis. N

    Sent from my iPhone


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